Healthcare Proxy: How to Choose the Right Person for Your Medical Decisions
For decades, there has been a serious problem haunting adults across the country. Too many aren't getting their advance directives in place before it's too late.
Only one in three has taken the time to get these legal plans in place. That means two-thirds are leaving their care and estates up to chance in the case of an emergency. Many people wish they had taken the time to get this done before.
Setting a healthcare proxy is a great place to start, especially for seniors. Read on to learn everything you need to know about power of attorney for healthcare.
Responsibilities of a Healthcare Proxy
As someone ages, it's common for their medical needs to increase. It's one of the less fun parts of aging but it is important to address.
Setting a healthcare proxy can help relieve some of that stress for a senior.
Occasionally, a person may find themselves unable to make sound medical decisions. That can happen if they are unconscious or have lost some of their mental ability. When this happens, a healthcare proxy will take over.
They'll help make choices for medical procedures, living situations, or end-of-life care.
Ideally, someone will have conversations with their proxy about a variety of situations. That way they will be better able to advocate for the right choices.
Ideal Timing for Choosing a Healthcare Proxy
This choice is a key component in senior medical planning but too many people never get around to it. It seems like something that often gets pushed down the road over and over. Until you really need someone there for you.
In an ideal world, everyone would have this conversation as soon as they become an adult.
It should be done when a will and other estate planning is done. So, at the very least, as you start to get older.
The sooner you make this choice, the more chances you'll have to state your wishes. You can even make specific requests, like what senior living community you'd like.
While there is definitely a more optimal time for this choice, it's never too late!
Potential Candidates to Consider
Many people put off this kind of decision because they don't like to think about the future. It can seem so far away and like nothing to worry about.
They also put it off because they don't know where to start in their search for a healthcare proxy.
No one wants to make a mistake and choose someone who won't have their best interest at heart. It's important to consider carefully your options before making a final healthcare proxy selection.
Think about going one step outside of your immediate family. This way there is less of a chance of emotions taking over in an emergency.
Characteristics to Look for in a Proxy
While most people would do their best as a medical power of attorney, not everyone is the best fit. There's a certain personality type that is best.
It's a good idea to choose someone with:
- Healthcare background
- Logical thinking
- Caring heart
- Good communication skills
Sometimes this step in legal planning for seniors can include tough conversations. You want to be sure you can trust someone to have those and then honor your wishes, no matter what.
Steps to Assign a Healthcare Proxy
Once you've made your selection, it's time to get the legal aspect sorted out.
First, you'll want to find the proper form for your location. Each state has its own process, so be sure to follow their directions exactly. You can also work with a lawyer to fill out the application.
Generally, you'll need a witness for when you're going to sign the documents. It may need to be notarized as well.
After those steps are done, you'll want to make sure everyone who needs a copy has it. That may include:
- Estate planner
- Family members
- Medical providers
- Senior living community staff
Keeping Directives Updated
One of the downsides to any kind of estate planning is that it's not always a one-time thing. Most people will need to update their documents from time to time.
It can be a bummer to take time away from your fun activities, but important to fit updating it into the schedule.
There will be obvious times when your advance directives will need to change. Like when there is a major change to your medical history. Or if something happens to the person you chose as your proxy.
But it's just good practice to check in with your estate plan on a regular basis. Looking at your plans every three years allows you to make adjustments as needed.
Other Estate Planning Steps to Consider
An easy way to make estate planning better is to get it all done at the same time.
Often, this is much better for the professionals you're working with as well. Everyone can stay focused on the same task until it's completed.
Most people equate this process with coming up with a will. And that's definitely a key component but it's not the whole thing.
You'll want to consider other ways you can help meet your family's needs. This could be through tax planning or getting life insurance. Those, in addition to clear instructions for assets, will be a huge help.
Some people will also take the time to write out funeral and burial wishes at this time as well, covering every base possible.
Helping Seniors Choose the Right Healthcare Proxy
Having a healthcare proxy in place will bring a lot of peace. It's always good to know that you're ready for anything that comes your way.
Finding the right senior living community is also a huge step for seniors. Instead of worrying about where you'll go when you need some extra help, you'll know exactly where to go. And you'll know it's going to be a great time as well!
The Conservatory at North Austin is just the place for local seniors. Our team creates a safe, secure home with a strong community. Contact us today to schedule a tour!